In Which Tina Fey Brings Out My Inner Therapist

2011 at 5am     Posted by Rebecca Schinsky

tina fey bossypants

Published April 2011 by Reagan Arthur Books

Weirdly disturbing cover aside, Tina Fey’s Bossypants is pretty great. Not perfect, but very enjoyable, and if it’s an indication of what’s to come from Ms. Fey in the future, I’ll happily subscribe to the mailing list for her next couple books right now.

Described most often as a memoir, Bossypants is not so much a narrative as it is a collection of vignettes about Fey’s (mostly awkward) life, her career in comedy, and her take on the working mother’s balancing act. Her voice is authentically present from the very first page—how refreshing, a celebrity book actually written by the celebrity!—and it just wouldn’t be right to discuss it without sharing some examples. Behold:

  • On women’s responses to the question of when they knew they were women (asked during research for writing Mean Girls): “Almost everyone first realized they were becoming a grown woman she some dude did something nasty to them.”
  • On supposed diversity in the definition of beauty: “All Beyonce and JLo have done is add to the laundry list of attributes women must have to qualify as beautiful.” And who can live up to that? Well, “The person closest to actually achieving this look is Kim Kardashian, who, as we know, was made by Russian scientists to sabotage our athletes.”
  • And what about the idea that if you hang out with gay people, they’ll try to make you gay? “Gay people don’t actually try to convert peole. That’s Jehovah’s Witnesses you’re thinking of.”
  • Words of wisdom for women working in male-dominate fields? “Don’t be fooled. You’re not in competition with other women. You’re in competition with everyone.”

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