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The Sunday Salon 4.26.09: In which I jump on the meta-blogging bandwagon
2009 at 11am Posted by Rebecca Joines Schinsky
This Sunday morning finds me doing my best not to melt. It’s not even May yet, and we had a high temperature of 95 yesterday and are expecting the same today. I suppose I should be glad that the southern humidity hasn’t kicked in yet, but man, I was just getting into the swing of gorgeous spring weather. I haven’t had enough of those lazy afternoons on the back porch, and this heat is just not okay with me. Honestly, I’m never really down with 95 degree heat, but it’s especially obnoxious in April. So, I’ll be spending the day on the couch, drinking lemonade like it’s going out style, and finishing First Comes Love, Then Comes Malaria, which seems like a very appropriate reading selection for a hot, disgusting day.
My blogging activity has been pretty low this week because I’m pretty exhausted. I’ve had a ton of special events at work the last couple weeks, and the next few will be equally busy, and by the time I’ve finished work and hit the gym, all I’ve wanted to do is chill on the couch and zone out in front of the TV. The GoogleReader is backed up well over 1000 unread posts, so I’m going to do some reading/skimming today to see what I’ve been missing. But in all honesty, the priority today, and in my free time for the next few weeks, is relaxation. And it might be nice to hang out with my hubby some, too.
I love the blogging community, and I’m grateful to have this creative outlet and a place to record and share my thoughts, but it’s been seeming a bit like work lately, and I want to chill for a bit so I don’t get burned out. There’s been a great deal of meta-blogging going on lately, and those conversations are interesting and useful, but I spend 40 hours a week thinking about programming and publicity and how to attract and involve more people in what we’re doing at my store, and I don’t want to have to think about my blog that way.
I’m not a professional blogger or a full-time blogger or even, really, a part-time blogger. I’m a take-an-hour-a-day-to-write-posts-and-read-other-posts-when-I-can blogger. I want my reviews to be detailed and well thought-out, and I hope that you, my readers, will find value in them and keep coming back. I want our discussions to be interesting, and I want to know about what you’re reading and what you think about things.
But I don’t want to be connected every second of the day.
I don’t have the time to be on Twitter or Facebook all day, and I don’t really know what Glue is, and I know that means that I miss some good conversations and am not always 100% in the loop, but I’m fine with that. Even if I could spend all day on the computer, I wouldn’t want to. For me, this is a hobby. A serious hobby, as Amy recently said, but a hobby nonetheless. Being hyperconnected might mean increased traffic or higher-profile attention, but I’m not sure that’s always warranted, and even if it is, it’s not a price I’m willing to pay.
I put in a lot of effort to (I hope) make my posts interesting, meaningful, useful, etc., and I’m glad that so many other bloggers do as well, but I think we might be getting too caught up in it.
Yes, it’s nice to have a lot of comments, but I’ll happily take 5 substantive ones over 50 fluffy ones. And yes, it’s nice to have relationships with authors and publicists and to feel important when we are asked to do reviews or when we get emails from authors or see a bump in our daily hit counts, but really, at the end of the day, our Technorati ratings and the number of times we update Twitter don’t matter. They give us feedback that some people like what we’re doing, and that’s great, but they don’t have any substantial bearing on our real lives….you know, the ones we live when we’re not sitting in front of the computer.
And I doubt that any one of us will go to his or her deathbed wishing we had just added that one last Twitter update or put more hours into our blog.
Blogging is a wonderful way to connect with other people who have shared interests, and, for a lucky few, it can become a profession or a full-time job, but it should never take the place of real-life connections with people we can see face-to-face, sit across a table from, shake hands with or hug, and call in the middle of the night when the world comes crashing down. And I don’t think it should ever approach being as important as what we do when we’re not in front of the computer. I fit blogging in around the rest of my life, not the other way around, and there are just some things I’m not willing to share or sacrifice.
I know we all have different priorities and values, and I’m not here to judge other people’s decisions about how they spend their time. But I am here to openly admit that if you think my lack of Twitter updates is an indication that I don’t care about blogging as much as you do, you’re probably right. I do care about it—and I hope that shows—but not enough to spend all day doing it, unless someone is willing to pay me enough to quit my job and become a full-time blogger, and not enough to worry about whether I’m one of the “cool kids” or what my number of Twitter updates says about me.
Just being able to share my ideas and hear back from other people about what they think or how they reacted to a book or what their life experiences are like is enough for me. It’s a nice extra. I’d be lying if I said I never looked at my stats, or that I don’t like it when I see that a post I worked really hard on gets a lot of hits, but it’s not something I spend much time thinking about, and I don’t want to be made to feel like there’s something bad or wrong about that. You can’t please everybody, and I’m not trying to. If you like what I’m doing here, that’s great, but if you don’t, there are a bazillion other book blogs where you can find something you’ll like, and that’s completely fine by me.
So tell me, what do you think about all this? Am I right, or am I way off base? If you’re a blogger, how do you balance and prioritize these things in your life? And if you’re not a blogger, what do you think about all these meta-blogging conversations we’ve been having lately? Are we taking it way too seriously?
And please, have a happy Sunday, saloners!
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Terrific post – I am right there with you. I don’t Twitter – I don’t plan to. I can barely keep up with my Google Reader. I love blogging and I love the blogging community, but sometimes I think it can get too serious. I look at my stats (I even get excited by them sometimes), but I don’t obsess about them. I don’t spend a lot of time trying to think about how to drive traffic to my site because that is not why I blog. I write about what I want to write about and I am always happy when others enjoy reading what I write, but to be truthful, I wouldn’t change what I write to get more people to come visit me.
Lately I have had to really prioritize because I have this little bundle of puppy that is sucking all my energy away from me! And I have a job. And a husband. And other interests. I don’t need any more social networks!
By the way, I love your blog – it is one of the blogs I always read (not skim) in my reader!
Thanks, Wendy! The feeling is mutual. And I’ve really enjoyed your “life with puppy” posts. My dog just turned three, and I finally feel like we’re officially out of the puppy stage.
I write my blog first and foremost for me. Hopefully others get something out of it, entertainment, knowledge, whatever. If not, like you said, there are many other blog choices out there. I avoid Facebook, Twitter, etc., like the plague. My focus is my blog, the rest of the online social networks, for me, are simply time-wasters. There are people that love them, and that’s great! I’m not one of them. I’d rather be reading!
Keep up the great work!
Lezlie
I very much enjoy your blog – and I wholeheartedly agree with this post. Since I am a type-A personality by birth, I have to make a conscientious effort NOT to pay attention to technorati stats, number of comments, etc. I have signed up for Twitter, but mainly lurk in the evenings as I have not time during the day. I also find that most of the detailed conversations take place after I am in bed, and that is ok with me.
The blogging community is far more than I ever imagined that it would be – and I am very grateful to have a found a place where my love of books is not looked upon as odd
BUT….it should never become a major priority in my life as there are other many other aspects of life that have eternal value.
Thank you for a great, thought-provoking post!
Enjoy the lemonade in the sun — we have rainy weather in the midwest.
I’m totally with you, Rebecca. I don’t Twitter, nor do I have any plans to. And I’ve no idea what Glue is either. I don’t mind about stats. I just read what I want to read, get my hands on a few free books that I would love to read as well, read other reviews on books I’m interested in. For the most part, that’s what my blog is about, just about what I love to do. It’s only an added bonus that I found friends along the way, and I like reading about their reading life, too, so that’s what’s been keeping me online more than intended. However, I don’t use any feed reader because I’m afraid it’ll be like having to check my email with a lot of spam, lol. What I do instead is keep the blogs I like to read on my blog roll, which updates most recent posts, and I just skim over what interest and forego the rest.
Great post. I’ve gone through roughly the same thoughts as you have, and I agree totally. I have reached points where I realized I’ve made the blogging into my life, and for me it just didn’t feel right. What I love best about blogging are the connections that I have made, so recently I just decided that those connections will be my focus.
Over the past five years I’ve actually had a number of different blogs, and I’ve made some incredible friendships through different ones. Even though some of those blogs are now long gone, the friendships remain. They’re the real thing, people who’ve been there for me, who share my interests, with whom I keep in touch regularly through various online means. So I have decided to just keep my eye on such friendships as my real blogging goal – blogging expands my world tremendously – and most of all, I intend to have fun with my blogging – really have fun. At the end of the day, that’s what works for me!
Good post. I thought I had a backlog in my feeds on Google Reader. I just caught up today., I only had 300. Finally looked them over this past week and weekend. But I think you hit a lot of interesting posts.
I’m not a devoted blogger to my personal blog, but I am to my book blog,mainly because I’m never without a book.
As a blogger, I like to post my reviews. I like my personal blog as a way to rant and rave or talk out what’s on my mind, even if no one reads the posts. I find it’s a great way to let off steam and it makes you feel better to let it off your mind. But I;m not one who must write a post everyday. My book blog, I like to write the review soon after I finish a book, so I don’t forget points, or get backlogged. Twitter I just read various RPGs, it really amuses me, but for all of theses, I make sure real life doesn’t get affected. If I have school work, I focus on it, in the end, sometimes I procrastinate, because really who wants to read a 100 page chapter on supervisors and union practises? As for my reader, I want to take a more active role in reply to posts of other blogs, but I lack the time. Now I have more time, since I’m finished school, but again it’s not the top of my priority list.
I joined twitter, but mainly for following authors or movie stars. I always forget to update, and only really do it, if I want to procrastinate from something unpleasant. But I do enjoy following Buffy the Vampire Slayer RPG Characters.
For me my social technology is somethign I enjoy doing, and for some things (especially blogging) I like to try and stay in touch, but it’s also something that sits on the back burner, I prefer reading and chatting with friends over coffee, food or in real life any day.
Aw, you are so wise. I’m on Twitter but I have TwitKit and when something interests me while on the computer I can jump in. It can be all consuming though. I had to turn it off last night to finish a review. I think I need a little break from it too.
I agree with you 100%. I’m on Facebook, but barely use it. I have no idea what Glue or Technorati is. I can see how Twitter can be useful (I like that Shreve Stockton of the Daily Coyote uses it), but for me, it’s a bit much. I’m like you: my blogging is a serious hobby, but a hobby nevertheless.
I graduated college almost a year ago and was planning on entering the publishing industry. Unfortunately, with the economy being the way it is, that never worked out. I did a publishing internship in college, so I used my connections from there to really get into book blogging and reviewing. I’m working a crappy job right now, but blogging gives me an outlet for my literary interests and desire to be a part of the book world. The publishing company I interned for actually specializes in translated fiction, so that’s what I’m focusing my blog on. It’s a great niche to fill and Americans really do need more exposure to international literature.
I don’t even get the whole RSS thing. I just keep a list of blogs that I like in my blogroll and in my Favorites menu and scan those daily.
Great post and I’ll give you an “amen, sister.” I don’t have time to twitter or do any of that other stuff. My blogging goes in ebbs and tides. Some weeks I may spend way too much time, because I’m bored and some weeks hardly any time at all. I do admit to checking my stats because it’s neat to see whose reading my blog. Another blogger, Lady Glam just brought the subject up of balancing what’s on our plates and puts a lot of what we do in perspective. Made me think twice, as well as your post. I’m currently trying to figure out a schedule that will work for me.
I appreciate all the opportunities blogging has afforded – networking with the publishers, getting free books, etc. But along with that comes a responsibility and I talked all about it on my blog, when you have a few moments to check it out.
I blog for myself mainly. It is a creative outlet and sometimes it does take up way too much time. Then it is time to reevaluate and step back for a while.
I appreciate your thoughts and I love reading your posts because they are so well thought out. I learn something new every time, plus discover books I never would have consider reading.
Enjoy your relaxing day in the sun. I’m heading outdoors in a few minutes myself to garden and read.
Glad you like all the puppy photos
My blog originally started as a way to share my animal stories, so I feel like I’ve gotten back to my “roots” lately! Isn’t it amazing how long they stay puppy-like? I must admit, there are days I long for Raven to grow up a little *laughing*…but I also know I’ll miss her puppy days someday!
Great post. I blog as a hobby, too, something to be fit in around the stuff of “real life.” When I have the time for it, I like to write about the books I’m reading. I love the people I’ve met, the books I’ve read, and the offers of books for review that being a book blogger has brought into my life. Still, though when it just won’t fit with all the other stuff I’m trying to do with my life, I let it fall by the wayside a little bit, stats be darned. It’s hard not doing the whole Twitter thing because I often feel like I’m missing good stuff and making stronger connections with my blogger buddies, but then if I don’t have the time to write an actual post on my blog or keep up with my Google reader, I can’t imagine trying to fit in one more internet activity. If I’m going to spend extra time blogging, I’d much prefer to spend it *actually* blogging and writing decent book reviews (which I’m usually behind on) than mindlessly Twittering away my free minutes, which, I’m sure, I would very quickly get sucked into doing. I also definitely agree that, as much as I do love my online friends and would like to become closer to them, my time would probably be better spent cultivating those real life face to face relationships that are such an important part of living, and I’m also not willing to sacrifice those to spend more time online with people I, unfortunately, probably will never meet. So, yeah, don’t look for me in the Twitterverse anytime soon.
And, BTW, I do very much like what you’re doing here! =D
I think my relationship with technology can be easily summed up as love-hate. I use Facebook to stay connected to old friends (and to voyeuristically know what people I don’t really care to stay in touch with are up to), but I spend maybe 10 minutes a day on it. And I’m on Twitter and use it several times a week, but I can’t (and don’t want to be) stay connected to it all day long. Social networking can certainly be useful, especially for businesses, but there’s a point where, at least for me, it becomes just another way to waste time.
That’s a really interesting perspective, and I’m so glad you shared it. I suppose it does really come down to what you’re looking to get out of blogging and social networking. If relationships are the focus, then the myriad ways of staying connected really make sense. I hadn’t thought about it that way before!
Your point about blogging and real life is spot on. If you don’t take time to live your life and have experiences, what the heck are you going to write about on your blog? I am actually having the opposite problem. I want to blog about what’s going on in my life, but I never seem to have the energy.
I’ve been on Twitter almost since the beginning. At first, when no one really knew what to do with it, my friends and I treated it like a chatroom. It was a lifesaver at the time because I was a stay-at-home mom with no transportation. Now that there are so many people on it, I use it more like a feed reader. I follow TV networks and various other entities for info on when a movie or TV show will be released, but I don’t tweet as much myself.
I’ve never seen the attraction of social networks like Facebook because I can’t figure out what to DO there. I belong to Ravelry, which is a social network for knitters, but there are things I can do there without actually reading message boards and keeping up with people. A social network without a theme seems aimless to me.
You are soooooo right! What a fantastic post. I have even stopped checking my stats very much because I think it is a distraction from the pleasure of reading and sharing my great finds with my friends in the blogosphere. It is supposed to be FUN, and I have become so weary of reading “I have to get this review up,” “I am behind in this or that,” etc. I have a job to burden me with deadlines and quantitative analysis. I don’t need the same stress from my hobby. Not looking for self-validation. Looking for community of like-minded readers.
Today I am reading The Heart is a Lonely Hunter. Happy reading!
I completely agree with your thoughts – blogging is great. It’s a fantastic outlet for my book ramblings that the people I see in my “real” life just aren’t that interested in hearing anymore. But when it starts to feel like work, I’m out. Right now, I’m having fun with it. I know I probably won’t ever be one of the “cool kids”, or have 200+ followers, etc – but that’s okay, because ultimately, it’s not for them. It’s for me.
Also, Twitter might be the devil. It’s like Instant Messenger, but worse.
This is one of the reasons why posts on my own blog are few and far between. I’ve got a billion and one ideas for posts, but when it comes to sitting down and writing something, I can usually find something a lot more worthy of my time to concentrate on.
I’ve had a fair few number of emails sent my way, whining about the irregular frequency of posts, but at the end of the day I don’t owe anyone anything. Like you said, it’s one thing if people want to send you some financial compensation along with their demands, but blogging has always been just a casual hobby for me and will probably remain so. I think I last checked my Google Analytics stats and Twitterati ranking about 3 months ago.
Having said that, I’m pretty active on Twitter. I typically have my desktop PC switched on 24/7, with TweetDeck running in the background. I use the computer for so many things that it’s pretty easy to dip in and out of the Twittersphere. I don’t really play the numbers game though — all that nonsense about being expected to follow everyone who follows you is complete nonsense. If I did that, I’d end up with all noise and very little signal in my timeline.
Thankfully, I don’t have an iPhone, Blackberry or any sort of internet-ready cell phone, so when I’m out of the house, I’m blisfully disconnected from all the digital mayhem.
Personally, I found all of it a bit overwhelming. I Twitter, but lately I feel sort of out of the loop even when I am actively trying to follow a thread. I am also on Facebook but have really cut back on that lately too. My blog? I got a bit wrapped up in receiving ARC’s. It was like a badge of honor to start getting them but now I only request books that I want to read. I mean, if I don’t have time to read the books that I want to read, then what’s the point?
The folks that enjoy your blog will continue to follow no matter how many times you post and I totally agree that 5 thoughtful comments are much better than getting 50 (not so great) ones.
The whole cool kid thing sort of depressed me a bit. Not because I want to be one, but because it was obvious to me that so many pay attention to that.
Lol about how you use facebook!!!! Me too, though I spend more like ten minutes every month on it. I signed up for glue but am not entirely sold on the concept. Really, my blog has me pretty maxed out when it comes to social networking and I also occasionally check twitter and get sucked into long conversations there.
What I was trying to communicate in my post was….we all approach it differently. And that’s okay, you know? We don’t all have to be the same and we shouldn’t judge each other’s motivations and work.
I would like to say that I met a bunch of book bloggers this weekend…my internet friends became my real life friends, I truly believe that. And while it’s not the same as living in the same community, it’s still real friendship. and every single one of them was exactly as I expected….which pretty much throws away the “you can’t really know someone on the internet” theory.
I think if you are uncomfortable with the time you spend on the internet or using social media…then yes you should step back. You have to listen to what your own conscience is telling you.
I am happy with the time I spend blogging. I browse through my favorite blogs during breakfast. I try to write one post each week. I also write down my scattered thoughts about the books I read each week, though I don’t always post these at my blog.
I’m the kind of person who always looks around to see if I have more gold stars than anyone else….so I’m always trying to remind myself that life is more than just who has the most stars….Thank you for your post that says this so well.
Amy, I think it’s awesome that you guys all got to meet at the Festival of Books, and I am definitely jealous. I hope I’ll get to turn some of my blogging friends into real life friends at some point as well, and I think you’re right that we can really get to know each other on the internet. Until you meet in person, though, it is certainly a different kind of friendship.
And you’re right on that it’s about each person doing what works best for him or her. I’m comfortable with the amount of time I devote to my blog, and I’m pretty happy with how things are going, but it seems that lately, bloggers are being expected (or are creating the expectation with each other) to be constantly connected, and I don’t think that’s good.
Well said, Ti. I had never thought of the blogging world as having a cool crowd and an uncool crowd until those posts started popping up. Sure, I know certain blogs have higher traffic than others, but I don’t know anyone’s stats but my own, so I have no way to compare. And I wouldn’t want to. As long as I enjoy a blog I’m reading, I don’t care how many other hits they get, you know? Of course I want the blogs I like to grow and be recognized, but I won’t stop reading them just because they’re smaller, and I don’t think small should be equated with uncool.
Good thoughts all around, Mark. We’re getting a wireless router in 2 weeks, and while I’m looking forward to being able to sit on the couch and have my laptop open while I watch TV, I don’t want to get sucked into being connected to social media all the time just because I can be. Hubby and I chose not to have internet-ready phones also because it’s nice to be unavailable and disconnected sometimes. I often turn my cell phone off on the weekends and just check periodically to see if there are any calls I need to return, then I can do so at my leisure.
Great post!! I’m in complete agreement with you. I blog because I love to share my experiences with books and readings with others. I have a small group of followers and I’m content with that. I spent a great deal of time on my blog when I created it and now I post when I can. I don’t feel pressured to post every day, 2-3 times a week is perfectly fine with me. I have a wonderful husband who understands my love of reading and he’s very supportive of my blogging. And I have two young boys that are growing up too fast for me..they definitely come before my blogging. When summer rolls around, my blog posts will dwindle to perhaps one a week..we’re supposed to be enjoying life, not sitting in front of a computer.
Oh–I do twitter. I tweet most of the day–it helps make my work day go by faster
I have to admit I am a Twitter person but I can take it or leave it. I don’t have the Blackberry or other to have it constantly at my side. Now to the blogging. I LOVE blogging. I really don’t get into the “conversations” that some do. I like to do my own thing. My blogging is my way to write. I love to write but fiction comes a little hard for me and I don’t have time in my life right now, so blogging is it. Blogging satisfies my need to put words to paper, so to speak. It has also been nice to make some online friends when I’m down a few friends (need to read the past few years of my blog.) Thanks for this outlet.
No shame in being a Twitter person! I’m on there too, so who am I to judge? I just think we need to seek more balance and not worry about being connected all the time. It’s up to us to set boundaries and realistic expectations.
I’m also not a professional or full-time book blogger. I started this for my own ‘reading journal’ and to have a link to send friends when they asked ‘what good books have you read lately”. The extensive book blogging community came as a surprise to me and over the past three years I’ve come to rely on other bloggers as my primary source of book recommendations. I’ve developed a network of bloggers who’s reading tastes I share and those are the folks who I read first and take most seriously. I read a lot of blogs (and have added you to my feed reader), but many I skim and only occasionally read in depth.
I’ve recently joined Twitter, but I’m not and never will be a big user. I’m more of the occasional commenter there. I have too many other demands on my time and frankly it can end up eating into my reading time. I do confess that I found my way to your blog when Natasha (Maw Books) posted a link to this discussion on Twitter).
What Wendy said really holds true for me too:
” I love blogging and I love the blogging community, but sometimes I think it can get too serious. I look at my stats (I even get excited by them sometimes), but I don’t obsess about them. I don’t spend a lot of time trying to think about how to drive traffic to my site because that is not why I blog. I write about what I want to write about and I am always happy when others enjoy reading what I write, but to be truthful, I wouldn’t change what I write to get more people to come visit me.”
I completely agree! Sometimes it’s nice to take a break not only from reading blog posts but also from posting our own.
It sounds as though someone has been critical of you! I’m sorry for that but I think your post is right on as a defense!
I love your blog, so keep it up!
Great post! I have twitter but use it mostly to lurk and to post my blog updates. I also have facebook, but it’s solely used for family and close friends.
There is such a thing as being social-ed out!
Thanks, Becky! I want to clear up that no one has been directly critical of me. I just thought this was a perspective that should be presented because there has been a lot of focus on Twitter and social networking lately, and I think those things are useful, but I don’t think they should be all-consuming or required for a blog to be successful.
Very well said. I have no idea what Glue is and I don’t see me ever twittering. Who on earth would care what I’m doing at any given moment? In any case, just wanted to say that I agree with you in so many ways.
This is a wonderful post and you have a great blog. I hope we all blog for enjoyment. If it gets too stressful it’s time to pull back. To tell the truth I don’t understand how people can spend lots of time on facebook or twitter or what they get out of it. For me blogging is fun and creative and a way to connect with people who love books but I try to limit my time on the computer so I can walk and read and garden!
Lately I have been having a lot of the same feelings about blogging. I started my blog as a travel blog when I came to visit John in Germany in late 2007. Previously, I had a livejournal for 5 years that just a few friends read. I intended my current blog to be the same – a place for people to check in and see what was going on while I was frolicking around Europe. Well, John proposed and I began planning for the wedding and a huge move to Germany. I kept the blog around and sometime this past summer, I started getting more than 8 hits a day. Once I started getting 30 hits a day or so, I would feel like I was letting people down when I wasn’t posting anything good — or anything at all.
I started to get stressed out over the blog. I felt like I had some sort of responsibility that I hadn’t really asked for. Once I realized it wasn’t my goal to have a blog like MckMama at My Charming Kids or another well-read blogger, the stress started to dissipate. I still try to post several times a week, so I guess I’m still a slave to my blog in some respects, but I don’t have the same urgency to get a post up by 2 PM CET/7 AM CST so people in the US have something to wake up and read. Yeah, now that I write that, it seems exceptionally silly. Especially since John and I tend to blog about nothing in particular!
Great post! Blogging and all that goes with it can be overwhelming sometimes. I’m amazed at the time and effort that some devote to their blogs. Sometimes I don’t have as much time for my blog as I’d like, but like you said, at the end of the day, a blog and its stats don’t really matter that much.
I’m on Twitter, but I maybe sign on once or twice a week. I have a hard enough time keeping up with my reader. I try to remember that my blog is a fun hobby, and when it starts feeling like work (as it does sometimes) it’s time to step back for a bit. For me, worrying about stats, visitors and traffic makes it feel way too much like work, so I very rarely check on them.
Gosh..others have said it here, but I feel exactly the same way!
Glue…Quite honestly, I find the idea sort of creepy. Twitter, well, if I could find something useful about it I would be there a bit more, but I just don’t have the time or the interest to try and follow some sort of thread. I always feel like the unpopular kid walking into the middle of someone’s conversation..lol
I stopped looking at my traffic figures and while I like comments and I like the feedback from my readers, I am happy if I get one comment from someone that really has something to say, whether they love what I said or think I am an idiot.
I have a full time job and as much real life interaction as I can deal with… I am serious about trying to post some quality stuff…but I never take the whole thing to seriously.
Late to the conversation as always! I do love Twitter! I love the back end conversation that takes place there and the connections that have been made. I don’t have web or twitter on my phone, so when I leave the house, I’m completely disconnected. And I do LOVE it that way. I don’t need to be connected 24/7, nor do I want to.
[...] to sacrifice face time at home, so I find I’m using Twitter more and may end up having to eat my words from a few weeks ago. Oh well. You live, you learn. And I still won’t be on it 24/7 or put [...]