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When did deodorant become sexy?
2008 at 11am Posted by Rebecca Schinsky
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So, I’m standing in the grocery store yesterday afternoon, trying to pick out deodorant for my hubby, who wasn’t with me on this particular shopping trip. He likes the Axe products, so I’m scanning those when I see this:

I tried to magnify the text, but it’s still pretty tiny. It says “Stay Dry & Stay Focused on Her.”
Now, I think we can all agree that it’s not sexy when someone is smelly, but if deodrant had the power to make a guy “stay focused on her” — whatever that means —it would be pretty amazing. It just kills me how blatantly companies use sex appeal in marketing and how it must, apparently, work pretty well if they continue to use it.
Also, I am totally amused by the fact that Old Spice is rebranding itself from product of choice for grandpas everywhere to young and sexy. Have you seen this?
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I love how his tail swishes when she walks in. Hilarious!
Tuesday Thingers: Banned Books
2008 at 10am Posted by Rebecca Schinsky
For this week’s Tuesday Thingers, Marie at The Boston Bibliophile has given us the list of the most-challenged books of the 1990s straight from the ALA website. I’ve highlighted the ones I’ve read. Highlight what you’ve read, and italicize what you have in your LT library.
- Scary Stories (Series) by Alvin Schwartz
- Daddy’s Roommate by Michael Willhoite
- I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou
- The Chocolate War by Robert Cormier
- The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn by Mark Twain
- Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck
- Harry Potter (Series) by J.K. Rowling
- Forever by Judy Blume
- Bridge to Terabithia by Katherine Paterson
- Alice (Series) by Phyllis Reynolds Naylor
- Heather Has Two Mommies by Leslea Newman
- My Brother Sam is Dead by James Lincoln Collier and Christopher Collier
- The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger
- The Giver by Lois Lowry
- It’s Perfectly Normal by Robie Harris
- Goosebumps (Series) by R.L. Stine
- A Day No Pigs Would Die by Robert Newton Peck
- The Color Purple by Alice Walker
- Sex by Madonna
- Earth’s Children (Series) by Jean M. Auel
- The Great Gilly Hopkins by Katherine Paterson
- A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L’Engle
- Go Ask Alice by Anonymous
- Fallen Angels by Walter Dean Myers
- In the Night Kitchen by Maurice Sendak
- The Stupids (Series) by Harry Allard
- The Witches by Roald Dahl
- The New Joy of Gay Sex by Charles Silverstein
- Anastasia Krupnik (Series) by Lois Lowry
- The Goats by Brock Cole
- Kaffir Boy by Mark Mathabane
- Blubber by Judy Blume
- Killing Mr. Griffin by Lois Duncan
- Halloween ABC by Eve Merriam
- We All Fall Down by Robert Cormier
- Final Exit by Derek Humphry
- The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood
- Julie of the Wolves by Jean Craighead George
- The Bluest Eye by Toni Morrison
- What’s Happening to my Body? Book for Girls: A Growing-Up Guide for Parents & Daughters by Lynda Madaras
- To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
- Beloved by Toni Morrison
- The Outsiders by S.E. Hinton
- The Pigman by Paul Zindel
- Bumps in the Night by Harry Allard
- Deenie by Judy Blume
- Flowers for Algernon by Daniel Keyes
- Annie on my Mind by Nancy Garden
- The Boy Who Lost His Face by Louis Sachar
- Cross Your Fingers, Spit in Your Hat by Alvin Schwartz
- A Light in the Attic by Shel Silverstein
- Brave New World by Aldous Huxley
- Sleeping Beauty Trilogy by A.N. Roquelaure (Anne Rice)
- Asking About Sex and Growing Up by Joanna Cole
- Cujo by Stephen King
- James and the Giant Peach by Roald Dahl
- The Anarchist Cookbook by William Powell
- Boys and Sex by Wardell Pomeroy
- Ordinary People by Judith Guest
- American Psycho by Bret Easton Ellis
- What’s Happening to my Body? Book for Boys: A Growing-Up Guide for Parents & Sons by Lynda Madaras
- Are You There, God? It’s Me, Margaret by Judy Blume
- Crazy Lady by Jane Conly
- Athletic Shorts by Chris Crutcher
- Fade by Robert Cormier
- Guess What? by Mem Fox
- The House of Spirits by Isabel Allende
- The Face on the Milk Carton by Caroline Cooney
- Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut
- Lord of the Flies by William Golding
- Native Son by Richard Wright
- Women on Top: How Real Life Has Changed Women’s Fantasies by Nancy Friday
- Curses, Hexes and Spells by Daniel Cohen
- Jack by A.M. Homes
- Bless Me, Ultima by Rudolfo A. Anaya
- Where Did I Come From? by Peter Mayle
- Carrie by Stephen King
- Tiger Eyes by Judy Blume
- On My Honor by Marion Dane Bauer
- Arizona Kid by Ron Koertge
- Family Secrets by Norma Klein
- Mommy Laid An Egg by Babette Cole
- The Dead Zone by Stephen King
- The Adventures of Tom Sawyer by Mark Twain
- Song of Solomon by Toni Morrison
- Always Running by Luis Rodriguez
- Private Parts by Howard Stern
- Where’s Waldo? by Martin Hanford
- Summer of My German Soldier by Bette Greene
- Little Black Sambo by Helen Bannerman
- Pillars of the Earth by Ken Follett
- Running Loose by Chris Crutcher
- Sex Education by Jenny Davis
- The Drowning of Stephen Jones by Bette Greene
- Girls and Sex by Wardell Pomeroy
- How to Eat Fried Worms by Thomas Rockwell
- View from the Cherry Tree by Willo Davis Roberts
- The Headless Cupid by Zilpha Keatley Snyder
- The Terrorist by Caroline Cooney
- Jump Ship to Freedom by James Lincoln Collier and Christopher Collier
I’m celebrating Banned Books Week with daily spotlights on a few of my favorite banned books. Are you doing anything fun for it?
In Praise of Banned Books, day 4: The Giver
2008 at 9am Posted by Rebecca Schinsky
Lois Lowry’s The Giver holds a special place in my heart because it is the first book I remember reading that was about something more than entertainment. When I was twelve years old, my sixth grade teacher read it out loud to the class, and I couldn’t wait to have my own copy, to read and re-read and to explore the power of books to change the way I looked at the world. It was the first of many unforgettable reading experiences, and I was so happy to have Banned Books Week as a reason to re-read it.
Eleven-year-old Jonas lives in a world in which every decision is made for him, and every behavior is regulated. His parents were assigned to each other, and when they applied for a child, they received Jonas from the group of Newchildren born to the Birthmothers that year. As December approaches, Jonas eagerly awaits The Ceremony of Twelve, during which he will find out his Assignment–the job deemed most appropriate for him by the Council of Elders. During the nightly Telling of Feelings, he expresses his anticipation to his parents, and when, during one morning’s Sharing of Dreams, he mentions a mildly erotic dream about a female classmate, his parents inform him that he has experienced his first Stirring and will now begin taking the pills that all adults take to suppress their desires until they enter the House of the Old. For Jonas, the world has always been this way.
At the Ceremony of Twelve, Jonas receives an Assignment no one expected or anticipated he would receive, and he begins to learn the secrets and lies upon which his community is built. He is to be the Receiver of Memory, who holds the memories of pain and pleasure that are too disruptive for the rest of the community, and he begins intense training with The Giver, who will pass the memories on before he is released to Elsewhere.
When Jonas first enters the The Giver’s training room, he notices many things.
But the most conspicuous difference was the books. In his own dwelling, there were the necessary reference volumes that each household contained: a dictionary, and the thick community volume which contained descriptions of every office, factory, building, and committee. And the Book of Rules, of course.
The books in his own dwelling were the only books that Jonas had ever seen. He had never known that other books existed.
During his sessions with The Giver, Jonas learns about a lot of things and practices he never knew existed—color, animals, inclement weather, pain, war—and he experiences emotions he has never truly felt before. When he wonders why everyone can’t experience colors, The Giver explains
Our people made that choice, the choice to go to Sameness. Before my time, before the previous time, back and back and back. We relinquished color when we relinquished sunshine and did away with differences….We gained control of many things. But we had to let go of others.
Troubled by the decisions his community has made and the fear they have of allowing citizens to make decisions for themselves, Jonas and The Giver face an important dilemma that could change their world forever. This amazing book is a meditation on the dangers of trying to create a perfect world. In its unique way, it is a celebration of differences and a reminder that though our world sometimes brings us pain and difficulty, is also brings us joy and love and music and, most important, freedom.
The Giver has been challenged primarily because of its references to euthanasia and suicide and for being inappropriate for young readers, despite its designation as fiction for young readers. It is a difficult book that contains troubling scenes and disturbing practices. It is not going to be appropriate for all children or all age groups, and it is important for parents and teachers to examine the age and maturity level of the children they consider sharing this book with. But that goes for all books, and I don’t think age appropriateness is ever a reason to ban a book (not that I think there are any good reasons to do so), because it is such a subjective, variable concept that will be different for every child, every family, and every set of values.
The Giver presents an opportunity to have conversations about why and how the world is the way it is—and why and how it isn’t the way it isn’t—and it is a beautifully written, wonderfully crafted novel that I believe completely deserved the Newbery Medal it was awarded “for the most distinguished contribution to American literature for children.”
Click here to read an article that explains the controversy in greater depth.
And if you missed it, here are the banned books I’ve reviewed so far: The Perks of Being a Wallflower—And Tango Makes Three—Catch-22
And here are the ones from my banned books buddy, Devourer of Books: Kaffir Boy—The Grapes of Wrath—The Handmaid’s Tale
Giveaway: Matrimony by Joshua Henkin
2008 at 4pm Posted by Rebecca Schinsky
You’ve probably seen this book all over the book-o-sphere, as author Joshua Henkin has really embraced the book blogging community and has generously shared his novel and offered up personalized signed copies for many a giveaway. I read Matrimony last month and thoroughly enjoyed it—there’s a reason it was named a New York Times Notable Book in 2007. Matrimony was recently released in paperback, and even though I LOVED the hardback cover design, I think this one’s pretty nice, too.
Click the cover above to read my review and remind yourself why you want to win a free copy. Joshua has a lot of great content on his website that you might want to check out as well.
If you’d like to win a personalized, autographed copy of Matrimony, leave a comment below telling me about the funniest or most unusual marriage/relationship advice you’ve ever given or received. I’ll start: the day after we got engaged, my husband took me on a surprise trip and told the flight attendants that we were celebrating our engagement. One of them looked at me, very serious, and said, “Sugar, this is the best advice you’ll ever get: always fight naked.”
Take that to mean whatever you want, but I think it’s pretty good.
The contest is open until 11:59pm EDT next Monday, October 6.
In Praise of Banned Books, day 3: Catch-22
2008 at 9am Posted by Rebecca Schinsky
On this, the third day of Banned Books Week, I’m celebrating a book that is one of the rare shared favorites between my husband and me. We are both avid readers, but there is very little overlap in our libraries, so it’s exciting to find a book that we’ve both loved. Joseph Heller’s modern classic Catch-22 is one such rarity.
Catch-22 is one of the funniest, weirdest, most unique novels I’ve ever read. It presents the story of Yossarian, a World War II bombardier who is constantly inventing illnesses and ailments in hilarious attempts to prevent himself from having to fly dangerous missions, which is a realistic concerned, given that whole armies—thousands of people—are trying to kill him. The government bureaucracy is always one step ahead of poor Yossarian, though, and his attempts are thwarted by Colonel Cathcart, who constantly raises the number of missions the men must fly in order to fulfill their service.
Yossarian is also caught by the Great Loyalty Oath Crusade, the rule by which a man is considered insane if he willingly flies into a dangerous situation, but he is considered sane if he requests to be removed from the mission, and because he is sane, he does not qualify to be replaced. It’s a classic catch-22, a term which was, by the way, introduced into the lexicon in this book that serves as a scathing critique of war and bureaucracy.
According to the ALA, one reason Catch-22 was challenged was its multiple references to whores, which are plentiful, given that this is a World War II novel set overseas. In fact, a whore plays a key role on the final scene, which creates one of the most memorable moments in all of American literature. It’s stayed with me for six or seven years now.
Heller’s characters and their experiences of army life are hysterical, maddening, and utterly mad, and his satire is spot-on. Catch-22 is a classic that should be on every bookshelf, whores and all.
My husband and I both love this book so much that we had an engagement picture taken with it a few years ago:

That’s one of the giant bookspines from the parking garage of the Kansas City Public Library (where I got married), which you can also see in my header photo. And just for fun, and because it’s naughty like Banned Books Week, here’s one in the stacks:
Be sure to check back here every morning for a new Banned Books Week spotlight, and don’t forget to visit Devourer of Books each afternoon at 2pm Central for a double-dose of banned books fun.
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